A honeymoon every day
Couples exercise- A honeymoon every day.
The next exercise is designed to rewrite anything that prevents us from experiencing the romance and pleasure we deserve. We can have a honeymoon every day when we love ourselves the way our mate does.
We want to understand how much, how we feel about ourselves is a relationship we have with ourselves and how this relationship is mirrored in all the relationships we have, altering our reality.
We do self checks, to feel what we are experiencing when we normally are with our mate. We remember our honeymoon and understand how having an experience of ourselves as the perfect lover for our mate, improves the romance we have. We had a better experience just as if we put on a new outfit. When we walked down the aisle or went on our honeymoon, we gave ourselves permission to let go of what prevented us from feeling beautiful and lovable and we enjoyed our self more because we were our complete self. we liked, WHEN WE FEEL GOOD ABOUT OURSELVES AND FEEL THAT IN OUR BODY, WE OPEN UP AND SEE THAT THE PERSON WE ARE WITH ALREADY FEELS THAT WAY.
The reason we are in this relationship, is to be able rewrite anything that inhibit us from enjoying and celebrating who we truly are as well as enjoying all the love we have.
We will be rewriting what prevents us from feeling the same way about ourselves, that our mate does, as it comes up. We slowly spend time being the perfect love for our perfect lover and anything that makes us feel less, we let go of.
We practice feeling wonderful and allow ourselves to surrender to the good feeling, so that we create a more accurate feeling about ourselves. We understand the way we used to feel if we did not feel great about ourselves, did not allow us to experience the same clarity because it was an illusion that hurt us. As we let the old illusion go and accept this more appropriate way to feel about ourselves, we experience enlightenment. We are illuminated by what is within us.
Through this we learn how much power we have just feeling good.
It is our job to be the perfect lover for our perfect lover and it is important to do this exercise to let go of whatever is preventing us from experiencing this so that we can enjoy our honeymoon every day. We continue to let go of anything that gives us a feeling that creates tightness in us and does not allow us to become immersed in joy.
Each time we relax and surrender to the more accurate feeling about how wonderful we are, we open our hearts and create romance.
Our honeymoon is not the only time we should focus on our happiness. Every day we celebrate our relationship and enjoy all the happiness we can, is a day that makes our life better. Our relationship is a temple. In the temple we are able to find and open a well. The water from that well brings such joy we are able to break all bounds.
Couples exercise three- A honeymoon every day
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Romantic Love
Couples exercise— Creating a deeper connection
Feeling lovable makes us warm and opens us. When we feel how lovable we are, we enjoy playing with our mate.
Our relationship is a reflection of how we feel about ourselves.
Rusty came in and sat on the couch. “My wife left me, she won’t answer my calls or open the door where she is staying. We have been arguing a lot but I love her and want her. Can you help me?” he asked me.
I said to Rusty, “You and your wife have developed a connection. Your sense of self is what opens and closes that connection. The way you feel about yourself alters the way you are able to see your wife as well. When we have a good feeling about ourselves, we open our heart and have the ability to connect. Opening up our heart, opens a link to the one we love and they feel that connection no matter how far apart it may seem we are.”
I asked Rusty if he remembered his honeymoon. He told me he had wonderful memories of it. I told Rusty, Our honeymoon is the time when we accept the way our mate feels about us as real. For that time we also are able to feel the same way about our self. It is a wonderful way to experience what we are in the relationship to get.
I asked Rusty to do an exercise with me. I asked Rusty to feel the way he did on his honeymoon. I asked him to relax and feel the way he did in his body and let go of all thought. I was going to ask him to do a self check to see if that was the way he felt in his body normally but before I did, he got a phone call from his wife. He listened to her and said “I love you too.” and hung up.
Rusty told me his wife called. He said she suddenly felt overwhelmed with a feeling of love for him and needed to call, he added that she said “I love you” and then told him to come over for dinner at 7:00.
Rusty and his wife did the exercises to remove the affects they had that prevented them from experiencing the love their mate had for them. The exercise opened their hearts and allowed them to have a deeper connection.
Exercise- A deeper connection
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Passion Meter
A game for your Android phone
The Passion Meter is now available from Android Market. This application is provided for you for free to have some fun with. I hope that you will enjoy the passion it brings to your life.
Passion Meter is a game that uses the perspective of someone that is enlightened.
The answers to the open ended questions, are there to help provide an understanding of how having clarity would automatically improve our experiences more than meditation or relaxation possibly could.
In the game, someone can ask an open ended question about their love life, their future or the meaning of their dreams. You touch the screen and the next screen gives the answer to the question. It is much like the I-Ching or Tarot.
The intent is to give practical examples of what drive-thru enlightenment, a system of simple exercises, would easily bring to us to create a better experience automatically.
The game is for fun but it is something that can open us to the possibilities we have. We would have much more passion if we just allowed ourselves to.
Please download this application for your phone and give it a try. I hope you enjoy it. Thank you.
Drive-thru enlightenment, will really increase the passion in your life.
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